Positive affirmations! I started incorporating these in my life about two years ago, and recently have been focusing more on them again to help me reach some of my goals like writing consistently, being kinder to myself and others, practicing gratitude, and feeling confident about myself and my abilities.
Affirmations are a great way to change and direct your mindset. You can not control everything in your life, but you can control your thoughts. Being intentional about the things you are telling yourself about who you are, what you can accomplish, and what your place is in the world is important. Affirmations play a big part in helping you align yourself with the kind of person you want to be. They are also a great way to change and replace any limiting beliefs you have about yourself.
How to practice positive affirmations
I love practicing positive affirmations in the morning, and I will probably do a separate post soon specifically on morning affirmations. I like to find podcasts or other audio (check Youtube or Spotify) of affirmations to repeat after each one while I’m getting ready or driving to work.
Another great thing you can do is write down affirmations you find (or come up with yourself!) and then read them out loud regularly, especially when you are feeling down, frustrated, or otherwise out of alignment with yourself and who you want to be. I like to sit down once a week and write new affirmations that I feel are relevant in my journal.
Either way, speaking your positive affirmations aloud is one of the best ways to reinforce them in your mind, and I highly recommend it!
Positive affirmations for insecurity and self-doubt
- I rise above my insecurities
- I am enough just as I am
- I am lovable and wanted
- I am a friend to myself
- I am worthy of the compliments I receive
- My body is a beautiful home
- I am strong and can do hard things
- I am worthy of my desires
- It is safe for me to be my authentic self
- I release all doubts and insecurities about myself
Positive affirmations for acceptance and letting go
- I let go of the things I cannot control and focus my energy on the things I can
- My past does not define me
- It is safe for me to let go of what no longer serves me
- I have everything I need to be happy right now
- I replace negative and irrational thoughts with loving and realistic thoughts
Positive affirmations for growth and success
- I am creating the life of my dreams
- I welcome new opportunities and energies into my life
- I am ready to succeed
- I am proud of how far I’ve come
- My goals and dreams matter
- I am capable of achieving my goals
- I always get what I need when I need it
- I create my success and am energized by my passion
- The possibilities in my life are endless, just as the universe is endless
- My talents are worth being paid for
Positive affirmations for social confidence
- I am kind to myself and others
- I am unaffected by the judgment of others
- I am worthy of meaningful friendships
- I am not in competition with anyone
- The more I value myself and others, the more my friends value me
- I can let go of toxic relationships
- I allow myself and those around me to be imperfect
- The friends I need will come into my life when I need them
- I am thankful for the people around me
- I know my worth and remind others of theirs
Positive affirmations for calm and peace
- I am in charge of my energy
- I respond to my anxiety with love and compassion
- I exhale tension and worry, I inhale peace and strength
- I choose to feel calm and grounded
- I am healing more every day